Meet and Greet

I’m doing a Meet and Greet out at Sticks and Stones on Saturday, April 23rd.

From 2-4pm I’ll be introducing myself and doing a question/answer session, after which I will then be available for readings in the store.

Time: April 23, 2016 from 2pm to 7pm
Location: Sticks and Stones
Street: 11037 Lee Highway
City/Town: FAIRFAX
Website or Map: http://sticksandstonescircle.…
Phone: 7033522343

Personal Spiritual Agency

If you really wish to delve into the realm of spirits, it is Essential that you understand that your own bloodline is your best spiritual line of defense. You may have already heard this before. You may have heard it more times than you care to count.

It Is In Every Way True.

I’ve spoken and worked with clients who have experienced everything from hearing scary laughter and voices up to being bruised, scratched or almost pushed down the stairs by invisible forces.

Every single time, my first words are, “What is your relationship with your Ancestors?”

The next thing out of my mouth is usually, “You need to establish a relationship with them before you do anything else. Don’t call mediums, don’t call a priest, don’t call a paranormal investigative team. CALL YOUR ANCESTORS.”

If you don’t have a solid foundation with your Ancestors, it will almost assuredly make any uncomfortable paranormal issues that you’re experiencing linger on for far too long, if not actively making the situation worse.

Before I choose to investigate a client’s house, if they’re not already doing so, I always urge them to set up a special, sacred place for those relatives of theirs who have passed, to pay respects to them – a candle, a glass of water, pictures of those who have crossed – you can start really simple. The very act of reaching out and Remembering is HUGE. Actively TALK to them aloud when standing in front of this place of remembrance when you can. Explain to them what’s happening in your life, tell them about your day – your joys, your frustrations – this will help to bring them closer to you, so they can work with you to protect you spiritually.

The second thing – and this is Really Important to remember: You’ve got to Let Go of the Fear.

You have something in your house that’s knocking stuff over, opening and closing doors and doing other uncomfortable and perhaps a little scary stuff? Try to shrug it off. Honestly. The human mind can concoct any number of little horrors to torment you with, especially when you’re all alone and it’s dark outside. There are plenty of spirits who are more than happy to take that and run with it, if you let your fear run wild.

Re-Direct – find something that will pull you out of that fear, and then talk to your Ancestors about what’s happening. Ask for their intervention.

THIS is your Spiritual Agency, an account of your capacity for individualized choice and action. Don’t go giving it to others before trying to solve the issue yourself first. After all, if you invite others in, and they’re able to remove/belay the disturbance – what happens when they leave? When that external agency is gone?

Be strong. Stand on the shoulders of those who came before you, and they will Hold You UP.

Workshop/Class: [RESCHEDULED] Initiating a Connection with Ancestral Spirits and Dealing with Paranormal Phenomena

I’ll be doing a class/workshop on the basics of initiating a connection with Ancestral spirits and dealing with paranormal phenomena out at Crystals, Candles & Cauldrons on Saturday, March 21st from 7pm to 9pm.

Crystals, Candles & Cauldrons
927B, West 36th Street
Baltimore, Maryland 21211
(410) 467-4111



Years ago, I wrote an 80,000 word X-Men fanfic. Since I’d been asked about it recently, I thought I’d make it available here.

Initiating a Connection with one’s Ancestral spirits

Many people ask me how they should initially go about connecting with or opening up to their own Ancestral spirits. Although there are many articles on this sort of thing throughout the internet, I’ve decided to go ahead and write one myself.

If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask – you can reach me at

Initiating a Connection with one’s Ancestral spirits

Initially – you can start out with a simple glass of water and a candle, set in a space specifically for the connection you’re trying to initiate. Ensure that you only place items respectful of the connection that you wish to have in this space. This is the first overture that you’ll be making with your Ancestors, so it’s important to be reverent and respectful about this space.

It is, after all, going to be a physical representation of their place in your life from here on out.

When you start feeling a little more comfortable with the connection that you’ve cultivated, you may want to upgrade – to give your Ancestors a larger space, or place of honor, within your house and your life.

One of the best ways to do this is to establish and set up a Boveda.

A Boveda is a spiritual tool/shrine that a spiritualist/espiratista uses when connecting with their Ancestors. Although the Boveda is primarily Christian, you can choose to use elements more in tune with your own spiritual path – but, do keep in mind that a great many of our own Ancestors were Christian, and as a sign of respect to them, you may want to keep the Christian elements.

The main elements of the Boveda are:

  • A small table
  • A white cloth
  • A rosary
  • Incense
  • White candle
  • A crucifix
  • Florida water
  • 9 clear glasses and a larger clear glass
  • White flowers

You’ll want to ensure that you set your Boveda up in a quiet, meditative space in your house. It needs to be a place where you won’t be easily interrupted when communing with it.

When initially setting up a Boveda, you’ll need to cleanse and bless the table itself – washing it using holy water or a mixture called blue water with florida water, casarilla, laundry bluing squares and white flower petals. While you’re doing this, you need to keep your intent focused on what you’re doing – do your best to keep your mind from wandering. This needs to be a very mindful, ‘in the moment’ activity.

During the process of cleansing/blessing the table, you can also choose to focus on the spirits in your lineage who have passed who you wish to get in contact with.

After the table has been cleansed and blessed, you’re going to want to draw a small white cross in the middle of the table with either cascarilla or chalk.

Once this has been done, place the white cloth down and begin to arrange the other elements on the cloth.

The large clear glass (I’ve seen spiritualists use large brandy snifters) is usually placed in the middle, with the nine glasses arranged around them.

It should end up looking something like this:


Initially, while your Boveda will look a bit like the one above, keep in mind that it may morph or shift as your connection with your Ancestors grows stronger. Some Ancestral spirits will end up telling you how they want it to look, whether they want certain elements or images added to or taken away from the Boveda.

Usually, the crucifix is placed in the middle glass.

When all the glasses have been placed, you’ll want to fill them as closely to the rim as possible. The water will act as a draw for negative energies around your house, which is why you should refresh the water on your Boveda weekly. Dispose of the water in a way that takes it away from your house – I usually flush it down the toilet, then refill the glasses, taking care to be mindful of your connection and keeping your ancestors in your thoughts as you do so.

You don’t have to keep the candle lit when you’re not physically tending to the Boveda, but there are many spiritualists who always keep a ‘light on’, as it were, for their Ancestors.

Secondary items you’ll want for your Boveda:

Cigars (essentially, an offering of tobacco – my spirits encourage me to smoke cigars when reaching out to them)

Cascarilla (powdered eggshells compressed into chalk that come in little paper cups – you can find them at your local Botanica)



oraciones-para-el-espiritistaYou’re also going to want to pick up a copy of the ‘Collection of Selected Prayers’ paperback by Allan Kardec. The prayers in this book are selected to offer respite for various suffering spirits, and are good ‘catch all’ prayers to read to initiate a connection with your Ancestors.

To strengthen the connection, you can choose to cook special dishes that relatives loved when they were still alive. By offering our Ancestors food from our table, we’re providing an active place for them in our lives. We help them to realize that we still remember, that we still care.

I also play music or sing songs that my Ancestors liked to bring them closer, to integrate them into my life.

For Ancestors who perhaps haven’t been propitiated directly in years, this is a soothing balm to their spirit.

Over time, finding pictures of past Ancestors to place on the Boveda will also work to strengthen the connection.

As you work to establish your connection to your Ancestors, you may start having what seem like very odd dreams. You may want to work to keep a dream journal by your bed so you can write these down. Sometimes these dreams are messages from our Ancestors that can help us with things that we’re currently encountering in our lives.

Your Boveda will be one of your strongest tools for spiritual enlightenment and assistance, so you’ll want to tend it often.

The connection you forge with your ancestors will also be your strongest protection against possible paranormal issues you may encounter in your life.

Never casually dismiss the connection that you’re working to build with your Ancestors – or your Ancestors themselves. It is said that we stand on the shoulders of those who came before us. Through them, our roads can open – but through them our roads can also close.

Class/Workshop: Initiating a Connection with Ancestral Spirits and Dealing with Paranormal Phenomena

I’ll be doing a class/workshop on the basis of initiating a connection with Ancestral spirits and dealing with paranormal phenomena out at Crystals, Candles & Cauldrons on Saturday, February 21st from 7pm to 9pm.

Crystals, Candles & Cauldrons
927B, West 36th Street
Baltimore, Maryland 21211
(410) 467-4111

Mr. Sucky and Mr. Licky – Bestest Friends Ever

A few years ago, I was doing a podcast. Since I’m a slacker, it kinda fell into the bin.

Here are two tiny stories I wrote, narrated by the lovely Mark Mandolia.

May everyone have a family – either blood or by association, that they can spend the holidays with. May you all be kept in the grace and love of the world and may you always have enough to eat. May your lives be full of things to be thankful for every day.


A couple of weeks ago, at the Maryland Renaissance Festival, I saw this lady with this completely fantastic hat. It was fringed with what looked like lamb fur, with a couple of segments going up the hat that opened at the crown to let her dreads flow out.

It looked COMPLETELY fantastic. Sadly, she said that she had purchased it years ago from a vendor at another faire. I was despondent – UNTIL, I realize that I could probably make one myself.

So I did.

Here is the closest approximation to the hat that I saw. I think it turned out QUITE well, given that I had no pattern to work with and the fact that I just started cutting and fitting things together. It’s a combination of lambskin/fur and teal deerhide with a very fluffy, soft teal lining.

Initial pictures are of the hat itself:



Then me simply wearing the hat:

leatherdreadhat2 leatherdreadhat1actionpose2 – and then we finally progresses into action poses with me in the hat.actionpose1

So, today, while shopping at the HEB, we encountered a checkout clerk that looked like he was about 17 or 18 years old. During the course of our checkout interaction, he mentioned something about the shopping carts – and how his manager had informed him that the plastic carts were more expensive for the shopping purchaser to buy than the metal carts. He then proceeded to the ‘money shot’ portion of the conversation – apparently, the manager told this kid that each metal shopping cart – EACH ONE is $3000. And, apparently, the plastic carts are $2000 more expensive.

The kid was ADAMANT that these were the correct prices.

I’m still laughing.